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What separates successful people from unsuccessful ones? Definitely the fact that the first ones are successful and the others aren't. The real reason for that is simple self-confidence or lack of it. Yet, it isn't just self-confidence. Some very successful business-men might be extreme wussies in their personal lives. So there must be something more to it. Success in business is measured by the amount of income, respect for leadership and reputation. In order to gain all that, one must believe in what he is doing, and he must believe in the way he is doing it, and he must believe he has the required skills for doing it. The skill of leadership is often learned through life, through living your everyday life. Different expensive courses in leadership or general university education is just extra. In business, if you feel you are good, you have made the first step and you're on your way to the top.

Success in love life

What about love? It's partly the same. If you believe you are good, you've made the first step and you have great chance of becoming a master. I'm not really talking about sex right now; I'm talking about mastering your love life. In other words: finding the women, talking, dating, keeping it cool and fresh, and most importantly feeling yourself way too good while doing it all.

What's the big difference between being successful in business and being successful in love, you ask? One thing - one main thing: Emotions! In business you don't really have to look inside of yourself the way you need to do it in your relationships with women. For mastering the art of being successful with women, you need to open up, be ready to show your feelings, be ready of being turned down, blushing without the intention, and being impulsive. If needed, even to make a total fool out of yourself, sing a serenade to your loved one or jumping off the bridge with your girlfriend's panties on your head (okay okay, you better forget about the last bit). In love, it's often a must. And one needs this kind of self-confidence to succeed with women.