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Hi, I have an unfaithful (now ex) boyfriend that needs a bit of a kick in the ass. Myself and the other woman would like to find a way to have his name, and copies of all his ads in the dating sites, come up if someone does a search on him. This is what happened...I'd already gone through the cheating husband scene, dumped his ass and moved on. I've dated several very nice men that never would have cheated, but the spark wasn't there, so we make much better friends than lovers. I started dating this looser almost 4 years ago, he knew my history and how I felt about faithfulness, he swore he would never do anything to hurt me. I ended up supporting him and his kid for six months while he was having a job and life crisis (no job, filing for bankruptcy and surfing porn). He finally got a job, and what I thought was his shit, together. We have had our ups and downs, but at no time did either of us split from the relationship (or so I thought). A month ago I was with him as he was checking an email from ebay when I noticed all these emails from another woman, and her address was listed. He didn't seem to care or thought I wasn't looking. I made a mental note of it but didn't say anything. While I was away for a class reunion the next week, he never answered the phone and had his cell off. I started to suspect something was going on. I did a little homework and searched the web for this woman's name, found her listed, and a few articles with her name. I also pulled up her profile and found out about her that way. I didn't let on that I suspected something, but waited to see what excuses I would get. They were the lame sort, he was out, the battery was low and he couldn't find the charger, he must have been asleep with the phone off. Then I started investigating him, and found some very interesting things. He has had ads in multiple online dating sites, including most of the seedier ones. He had a total of 28 screen names that I know are his, I'm sure more that I didn't find. So I made copies of all the listings I was sure were his, contacted the other woman, sent her all the ads and explained who I was, hoping she wasn't in on the deception. Then I turned around and confronted him with all of it. He feigned remorse, but the only thing he was sorry about was getting caught. The other woman emailed back and was ready and willing to hold him down if I wanted to tattoo a big red A on the appendage of my choice. We had been through basically the same type of marriage and ended them for the same reasons, and this jerk was playing us both. We are now looking for a legal but lethal way to put a huge dent in his online antics, while warning as many women as we can about this jerk. Is there a site where we can post his name, screen names and ads where they will show up if anyone does a web search on his name or screen names? If not, what would it take to build a site like this? Or, do you have any other suggestions? I thought about sending it all to his parents, but that would only hurt them. We need a way to warn other women and knock his d*** in the dirt at the same time. Thanks for any help you can give. Trying to make Lemonade Hi Trying, I feel sorry for what you went through. While online dating can be a great time-saver for busy people to meet others, rather than the bar scene or through friends, it often is used by cheaters to 'get themselves off'. While I am unfamiliar with a way to publicize his screen names, you certainly can contact the services involved and at least they'll shut down the existing profiles. To get really nasty, setting up your own website at a free service is rather simple. And there you can post everything you want to. Look at Yahoo Geocities, or do a Google search for 'free websites'. Once you get one website online you could easily copy the code into more websites. Good luck! RG The Revenge Guy Revenge advice for all! Be Sure To Visit the Revenge Store http://www.revengeguy.com/index.htm The Revenge Guy's advice is for entertainment purposes only. No advice should be acted upon without first receiving legal council. You are of sole responsibility for your own actions. AUTHOR: The Revenge Guy  TAGS: Entertainment revenge BOOKMARK: Digg it | Add to Del.ICIO | Add to FARK ACTIONS: Comment Save Print Register free acount 
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