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I have an unfaithful (now ex) boyfriend that needs a bit of
a kick in the ass. Myself and the other woman would like to find a way
to have his name, and copies of all his ads in the dating sites, come
up if someone does a search on him. This is what happened...I'd already
gone through the cheating husband scene, dumped his ass and moved on.
I've dated several very nice men that never would have cheated, but the
spark wasn't there, so we make much better friends than lovers. I
started dating this looser almost 4 years ago, he knew my history and
how I felt about faithfulness, he swore he would never do anything to
hurt me. I ended up supporting him and his kid for six months while he
was having a job and life crisis (no job, filing for bankruptcy and
surfing porn). He finally got a job, and what I thought was his shit,
together. We have had our ups and downs, but at no time did either of
us split from the relationship (or so I thought).
A month ago
I was with him as he was checking an email from ebay when I noticed all
these emails from another woman, and her address was listed. He didn't
seem to care or thought I wasn't looking. I made a mental note of it
but didn't say anything. While I was away for a class reunion the next
week, he never answered the phone and had his cell off. I started to
suspect something was going on. I did a little homework and searched
the web for this woman's name, found her listed, and a few articles
with her name. I also pulled up her profile and found out about her
that way. I didn't let on that I suspected something, but waited to see
what excuses I would get. They were the lame sort, he was out, the
battery was low and he couldn't find the charger, he must have been
asleep with the phone off. Then I started investigating him, and found
some very interesting things. He has had ads in multiple online dating
sites, including most of the seedier ones. He had a total of 28 screen
names that I know are his, I'm sure more that I didn't find. So I made
copies of all the listings I was sure were his, contacted the other
woman, sent her all the ads and explained who I was, hoping she wasn't
in on the deception. Then I turned around and confronted him with all
of it. He feigned remorse, but the only thing he was sorry about was
getting caught. The other woman emailed back and was ready and willing
to hold him down if I wanted to tattoo a big red A on the appendage of
my choice. We had been through basically the same type of marriage and
ended them for the same reasons, and this jerk was playing us both.
We
are now looking for a legal but lethal way to put a huge dent in his
online antics, while warning as many women as we can about this jerk.
Is
there a site where we can post his name, screen names and ads where
they will show up if anyone does a web search on his name or screen
names? If not, what would it take to build a site like this? Or, do you
have any other suggestions? I thought about sending it all to his
parents, but that would only hurt them. We need a way to warn other
women and knock his d*** in the dirt at the same time.
Thanks for any help you can give.
Trying to make Lemonade
Hi Trying,
I
feel sorry for what you went through. While online dating can be a
great time-saver for busy people to meet others, rather than the bar
scene or through friends, it often is used by cheaters to 'get
themselves off'.
While I am unfamiliar with a way to publicize
his screen names, you certainly can contact the services involved and
at least they'll shut down the existing profiles.
To get really
nasty, setting up your own website at a free service is rather simple.
And there you can post everything you want to.
Look at Yahoo
Geocities, or do a Google search for 'free websites'. Once you get one
website online you could easily copy the code into more websites.
I cant belive you are on about Gary! He was my old boss at zizzi's in Chester, he did seem like quite creap around girls, always trying it on.
I didnt realise what a jerk he was, let us all know what you do to ridicule him, im sure it will be good.
angry- says on 2009-07-29 02:52:18 about just read all ur messages again
omg i just read helens messages and that was me coming out of his house kissing him. but no not me in spotty pants. I had no idea about either of u till recently.
He has some cheek because we have always been on off and im quiet young and did not want to settle down. so he gave me this speech and crap about weather he could trust me and if i would cheet and the fact i never tell him how i feel about him and that i do not love him.which turned about to be true but in the last few months since valentines he had said he loves me less and less times to usual.
So maybe he is learning the error of his ways by the way he now drives a peogot 206 and he brought a very old jag this time. that i drove him up to sheffield to buy!! so watch out ladies and go to the docs and get your selves checked
Angry says on 2009-07-29 02:37:10 about escaped
You were right all along Anna and no my name is not sam i know u contacted her. I have been with gary since last august and only a month ago did i find out the truth! As u did i have known gary along while 2 years now. seeing each other inbetween bf's and gf's. So i know more than most about him after practicly living with him in northwich for 6 months.
I had confronted him about this website and a letter i recieved from someone named lydia back in september.Mailed to my address claiming her police brother had found my info after seeing me in his car.
So yea i ignored it and sided with gary thinking someone had got it in for him.
Then just befor i was going to move in proply in march i saw the light.
Went through his phone and found messages flirty ones from the cleaner and some1 called 'blond'. did not tell him just was off ish for a few days we then split up i took all my stuff home and we did not see each other for nearly 2weeks.
I then had to pick some stuff up we talked and decided to carry on just dating. But both new it was not worth it so i started looking else where and i know so did he.
he will still deniy sleeping with anyone while we were together he says just txting. But the last day i was there when i tried to give him his key back i found a pic in his saved messages of some one named anna a scouser with a butterfly tatoo sent in october.who i now know he worked with when he started woking for zizzi's around that time.
Also a women kneeling on the bed with dark black hair a larger lady about size 16/18 sent in september which he had transfered to his new phone.
So yes i was a sucker but i think this time he was more hurt than me!! so maybe we should give him abreak and hope he finds happpyness. Cus remember it will be him that ends up alone not us who move on.
Also yes go get checked out cus 2years ago what he gave me or i gave him was not just a good night do not worry no lasting effects just had to have antibiotics.
All the best anna hope u are now happy in life
anna says on 2009-03-13 13:33:43 about gary birkin
well sorry guys but gary birkin in stoke who lives in northwich but also has a house in dresden, stoke and works in chester is a wanker and a liar n cheat.
all womena nd girls who come in contact with him should be wary, i myself have had rude pictures sent to me from him of girls he has been with so what does he think of those girls to do that to them, obviously no respect for the female sex, as for me i am no liar and if it was referring to me about not fit to be a mother etc i am aprofessional person and have no reason to lie, just dont want other ladies to get caught in his lies as i did and others not to mention what he could be passing around with all this unprotected sex. JUST SEE HIM FOR WHAT HE IS A LIAR, CHEAT AND LOSER AND ASK WHY IS HE STILL SINGLE!!
Iknowthetruth2 says on 2009-02-19 15:57:16 about gary
What a load of rubbish this woman needs to get a life she obviously knows nothing about Gary. He is not like she has made out at all hopefully all these comments will stop now.
Iknowthetruth says on 2009-01-12 12:34:04 about Debbie Edgecomb
this women is a schizo and should go back to the mental institution she was in before as she isnt fit to be a mother or a person in the normal community, avoid her and her lies, she also goes by the name Debbie McDowell.
womanofsteel says on 2009-01-11 22:34:10 about RE Avenger says on 2008-12-25 19:16:55 about ALEX CHERRIE
this woman is a liar and she knows she is, get a life and stop speading rumours about people which aren't true, you are twisted.
anna says on 2009-01-07 12:32:28 about gary birkin
yea i totally agree, angry he will ruin your life, i spent 6months getting to know this guy and now i see all i did was waste 6mths of my life on gary, i hope your real name isnt sam angry cos i just think he is using you like the rest of us who fell for it. in time he will move on if he isnt already playing you. wake up and realise that you are worth more than that hun
Kate says on 2009-01-01 14:48:41 about angry
angry, are you mad, you say you have fell for him and now you know this your still with him, good god wake up and see what he`s doing to you. wake up and move on,
Avenger says on 2008-12-25 19:16:55 about ALEX CHERRIE
my x did the same to me, gave that bastard three years of everything I had, paid his way, cooked and cleaned for him, while his lazy no good unemployed ass sat on the computer all day, and stupid me for thinking he was job hunting, more like female hunting, to all of those who I contacted and are now rid of him, good going, for the one that is with him now..hell freaking mend you, you deserve everything that you get..stupid bitch
anna says on 2008-12-02 09:05:42 about gary birkin
sorry angry but looks like we all been had by this gary birkin, i even about a month ago told him about this when i found it and he said it was a load of rubbish and he wasnt seein anyone and even asked me if i wanted to meet for some 'fun', he said which i presume is u that u were a bit of fun and nothing serious, maybe this is u but he sent me a pic of a girl kneeling on a bed in undies, lol spotty ones, that really shows respect to the girl. and cos i have kids said it wouldnt work with me only sex was good. asked me to go n help him put his new bed together n said could try it out after!!!
i was on holiday in august and when i got back he was quiet and then a few days later told me he was havin a sex only relationship so that may have been u, timings right.
i did fall for him im ashamed to say in a big way but looks like he has ways of making us fall for him. if u want to stay in touch i wud like to, out of curiosity and im sorry u have found out like this(im on facebook and msn) leave msg on here
angry says on 2008-11-22 09:39:34 about gary
hi this is the "stupid/thick" person who is going out with him now. I have always had my suspicions in the 18 months we have been seeing each other on and off. Since i got back with him in august i received a letter at the end of September from some one he had been seeing.Spoke to him about it he said it was all rubbish and it must be someone i know trying to split us up. Since then have received txts about this web site. After reading i feel very shocked and hurt as yes we are planning on moving in together. Think we need to have a serious chat shame i have already fell for him. Got to now find a way to seek my revenge.
helen says on 2008-11-18 18:08:35 about Gary Birkin
Anna sorry to hear that sounds like the same man, silver bmw, lives nr Blurton Park at his mums lol sad as he is 40, just hear he is moving in with his ex in Chester so good riddence, feel sorry for her, she must be stupid of blind to what he is like.
Helen
anna says on 2008-11-04 09:56:30 about gary birkin
hi i have just read all your stories and im gobsmacked that i too have been in the company of this gary birkin, if from stoke, drives a jag or apparently a new ish bmw?? ring any bells. i started to talk to him in april n was seein him on n off til sept when i found out he seein an ex and then said was no strings, i got hurt, and in middle of a cancer scare.
bitter says on 2008-10-22 17:03:08 about
i found out that my boyfriend had been cheating on me and among other things i enjoyed stealing all of his cloths, shoes, jackets... everything... didn't even leave his underwear... i found it very amusing that he had to go out and buy alll new clothes :-)
Michelle says on 2008-10-22 12:35:31 about Gary Birkin
Sounds like your luck to have found out, forget him, loosers never change so let him mess up this other womans life, not yours.
Take care
BettyBoop says on 2008-10-19 04:42:41 about
Sorry to hear what you have both found out and been through, dont get revenge just leave and find a stud then rub it in his face that you found a nice caring and better MAN, not a boy who you have both been seeing, best revenge if you ask me,
xxx
Broken Hearted says on 2008-10-17 20:12:04 about Ex Boyfriend Cheated On Me
Hi
I am not sure if this is a good place to vent off a little, but i found out 2 days ago that my boyfriend of 2 years has been cheating on me with a girl 10 years younger than me. Needless to say, i am absoulutely shattered. I suppose it is my fault i found out really, i had suspicions and hacked into his email account - he shouldn't have given me the password! not really hacking then is it? - and i found his emails to her. Dumb Shit actually forgot to delete his emails but remembered to delete hers. I don't know if i am more upset at the betrayal and deceit or that he has been playing away? I am completely crushed. I have obviously emailed the other girl and told her about me and for some reason hold no blame to her, but she has not contacted me back. I would love to seek revenge on him but anything that he has of value, i paid for!Any advice people?
Thanks
Broken Hearted x
Sam says on 2008-10-16 19:20:44 about Gary Birkin
Anyone thought about warning the other woman, she may not know what this guy is up to, maybe someone should get in touch with her and let her find out, she may have been used and sucked in like you Helen. If she does know well she`s a fool.
ChuckieEgg says on 2008-10-14 13:58:31 about Gary Birkin
Dont go back to this looser, if he cheated on you he`ll cheat again, temptation will be too much for him, I was married to a man who did the same, first he denied it, then I forgave him for doing it again and then he did it once more, thats why I divorced him. Babe, listen to whats said here, leave him, move on find a lovely fella that feels right and you can trust and forget about this looser. Like whats been written, go out with friends, spend time doing things you like, outings, pub, club and forget this scumbag.
Nikki says on 2008-10-13 18:32:32 about Gary Birkin
Keep well away from him, sounds a right user and not a real man, let him get himself into trouble and if he is married i feel sorry for his wife. Find a nice decent man who will love and care for you.
Nikki
Marie says on 2008-10-13 13:02:54 about
Dump him and move on, you can`t trust him now and never will now, you`ll always have doubts, forget him and leave.
xxxx
AngelAbigail says on 2008-10-12 06:09:15 about GBirkin
Sorry to hear about your hurt, I would post his name everywhere in the local area, make sure everyone knows what he is like. Bet he`s one of them charming blokes, not a real man but a fake.
AngelAbigail says on 2008-10-12 06:07:58 about GBirkin
Sorry to hear about your hurt, I
Kaz says on 2008-10-12 05:53:44 about Gary Birkin
Helen, Think how lucky you are you found out now, before you did anything else, I would get yourself tested though even if you used safe sex, as he has been sleeping about (and thats been proven )you never know if he got or passed anything on, that goes to anyone that has or is sleeping with him. men lie (just as well as us women lol) so dont believe anything he says, I`m a nurse and have been in your situation, just make sure you get checked out and if you see the other woman, or if her friends read this get her checked out too.
Kaz, Manchester.
SilentWhitness says on 2008-10-11 16:02:53 about Gary Birkin
Dump him and do not move in with him, I dont know him and he most likely has denied it to you and the other woman, but you cant trust him now, it will always be in the back of your mind, like the old saying, there is no smoke without fire, he must have done something so dont go back to him, talk to your friends, family and spend some time being single and with people you can trust. Get a friend to take you out for a drink, shop or do an activity, forget him and get on with a good life.
Amy says on 2008-10-10 12:53:20 about ...
what a slimebag, bet he comes across as sweet and innocent and caring then below he`s a user and cheat, run away from him fast, at least your not married or living with him, run away .
Helen says on 2008-10-09 07:28:18 about him
I`m not sure if he worked where you said, i`ve only known him from Stoke, well Longton to be exact, i once met his mum Carina and have often met him at the Orange Tree Pub, Parklands and the bar/resturant he currently works at. I know now he is or was married. I`m just worried that if my brother finds him, he`ll hurt him for how he`s hurt me. Thanks for your advice everyone, just pondering if i should get even or walk away totaly.
"Helen"
Mark says on 2008-10-09 06:42:12 about Gary Birkin
Hi, did a google search and found this thread, is this the same Gary Birkin who was bar manager at the Slug and Lettuce, Hove, if so i worked with him and he can play the field, he used to cheat on his wife, if thats the same one. Funny how things come back to get you, bet he thought he would get away with it.
Suzanne says on 2008-10-08 19:43:24 about Gary Birkin
Let him go , if the woman this Gary Birkin is seeing is stupid and dumb enough to keep going back to him ( despite his cheating) she`s worthy of him, dont come down to her level, move on and find someone new or someone you know who loves you and only you. Maybe someone should post a warning about him in Stoke on Trent.
Suz
Grace says on 2008-10-05 12:41:17 about Cheats
Walk away babe, if the other woman is thick and stupid enough to not see what he is like she is deserving of him, he must have an hold on her if she keeps going back, silly her and hiss loss that he messed you about, be happy, and you`ll find a man that loves and cares for you.
Grace says on 2008-10-05 12:33:31 about Cheats
Walk away babe, if the other woman is thick and stupid enough to not see what he is like she is deserving of him, he must have an hold on her if she keeps going back, silly her and hiss loss that he messed you about, be happy, and you`ll find a man that loves and cares fr you.
Magz says on 2008-10-03 18:58:59 about
If you go back to him you`ll never be happy, you have lost that trust, no matter how much you love this Gary Birkin bloke he`ll always deny aything, see sence and move on, it`ll hurt a bit then be ok
Magzz
MargeSimpson says on 2008-10-01 18:28:19 about cheats
I agree, loose the looser and move on, if he has done it once he can do it again.
MargeSimpson says on 2008-10-01 18:27:54 about cheats
I agree, loose the looser and move on, if he has done it once he
Steph says on 2008-10-01 18:24:21 about
dump him and find a real man who will never treat you like that, move on helen
helen says on 2008-09-28 08:07:26 about Cheating
I have just found out the lovely man (Gary Birkin) i have been dating and falling for is also seeing another woman, i turned up at his one night and found another woman coming out and kissing him, did some homework and found out its an ex of his and he is seeing her too, any ideas how to get him back
Da Vincis Apprentice says on 2007-04-26 13:43:17 about Releationship Learning
I've been married 21 years now. About 5 years in, things started to get bad, everything
between us seemed to lose its lustre. My wife
had been complaining about certain things. Out in the world I ran into another woman who I simply had an outrageous physical attraction for. This new woman was interested in what I had to say and was quite attentive
and gave me praise. Even though we had two young childrean, I was going to leave my wife, even wrote a letter to such effect which she found. I was really emotionally out of control. When My wife found the letter I invited her and this new woman to meet so I could fgure out what the hell was happening to me and why my emotions were so intense.
Needless to say they both declined. What I LEARNED is that I needed the attention and appreciation and had made my wife wrong for not providing that. At that point I deceded to create that for myself instead of blaming her.
I recommitted to my wife and took back my power to have anything I want in a relationship and began asking my wife, "Why do you love me? Why do you likfe me?" If I need to be appreciated, I create it. The bottom line is a request for any ladies wishing to blame their men. Don't. All you do is give your power away by doing that. Take back your power and create what you want to show up in the relationship. Share with them about my experience and how they can be powerful with you. Lastly, there are ONLY four things men need from a realtionship: Attention, Appreciation, Not to be Made Wrong and Sex. A lot of women actually listen for their man to cheat instead of actively working to have the realtionship work. If each person actually worked as hard at their relationship as they do at making the other wrong, you would actually have a decent chance at happiness. How do I know? Well,
my idea of a good time with my wife is:
Whirlpool Bath, reading to her while she massages me, epsom salts and essential oils in the water, candles light the room, great music is playing, we are having breakfast...
Need I say any more?
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Joy says on 2006-12-04 18:20:18 about My situaton
I totally understand everything your going through I have a very similar situation. My now ex boyfriend and I had been together 6 months now. 3 months of the time he was cheating on me with this bitch named ashely. around september he said that him and her were over and he was totally ready to be committed to me. That lasted 3 more months from september until december he did well everyday we were together and everyday we were happy. That is until i began to get in a little dept. Then to add fuel to the fire his damn cousin stole my fucking car. My now ex decides after that event that me and him needed some space. He came back crying to me a day later we got back together. # days from that i call his phone and a girl picks up. I immediatly knew who it was but i even asked the bitch nicely can i speak to clyde the dumb bitch hangs up in my ear. I call the phone back about 7 times and everytime i call she will answer then sit on the phone for a couple second then hang up. So i called his mother and since his mother can't stand that bitch either we were trying to set him up. His mother was calling him on three way to see if she could get him to tell her exactly were he was because i swear if i would have found him and that girl together i would have put them both in critical condition. then this mother fucker had the nerve to try to call me about an hour after evrything went down from a fuckin laudry room talking about he didn't know what i was talking about and all this other shit. Then refused to come over and see me after the fact talking about some"he chillin" He can chill all he wants to cause that night which was last night I FUCKED HIS BEST FRIEND hahahahahahahahahahahahaha who got the last lauph now bitch
Joy says on 2006-12-04 18:18:02 about My situaton
I totally understand everything your going through I have a very similar situation. My now ex boyfriend and I had been together 6 months now. 3 months of the time he was cheating on me with this bitch named ashely. around september he said that him and her were over and he was totally ready to be committed to me. That lasted 3 more months from september until december he did well everyday we were together and everyday we were happy. That is until i began to get in a little dept. Then to add fuel to the fire his damn cousin stole my fucking car. My now ex decides after that event that me and him needed some space. He came back crying to me a day later we got back together. # days from that i call his phone and a girl picks up. I immediatly knew who it was but i even asked the bitch nicely can i speak to clyde the dumb bitch hangs up in my ear. I call the phone back about 7 times and everytime i call she will answer then sit on the phone for a couple second then hang up. So i called his mother and since his mother can't stand that bitch either we were trying to set him up. His mother was calling him on three way to see if she could get him to tell her exactly were he was because i swear if i would have found him and that girl together i would have put them both in critical condition. then this mother fucker had the nerve to try to call me about an hour after evrything went down from a fuckin laudry room talking about he didn't know what i was talking about and all this other shit. Then refused to come over and see me after the fact talking about some"he chillin" He can chill all he wants to cause that night which was last night I FUCKED HIS BEST FRIEND hahahahahahahahahahahahaha who got the last lauph now bitch
