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    WHY SEX CRAZE AND NOT LOVE CRAZE?


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    As I look back over my life I am reminded of how much people loved one another. Girls and boys could be the best of friends without having sex. I am not ruling out the activity of sex during that time but it did not rule over the heart as it does today.
    We are finding more and more sexual activity is taking place among our youths at a younger and younger age. Also with this growing number, we find sexual activity multiplying among the same sexual preferences. With that, we also see an outrage of infidelity. What is all of this telling us? Very simple, we are not developing our total selves. The physical self is ruling and it is doing so with no conscious of morality. No one wants to admit the human race has lost touch with its purpose to exist. When you have no program, heathen tendencies rule our conscious. We were created to love one another unconditionally.
    Why sex? I had to ask myself this question knowing I too have in my lifetime experienced revealing my nakedness to a man for the first time knowing just maybe I should not do this. But I completed the mission with no thought of the risks. Why? Because in that moment I and so many other people allow the adrenalin rush to bond with another human overtake our logic. It is just that simple. We dive in hoping for something magical, special, bonding and at times proof that love is possible. The very act itself promises no bed of roses only hope that maybe just maybe we are special to someone or we just downright need to feel something, something we do not experience outside of this experience.
    What we are seeking is a conscious connection to someone. We need love a love that makes us feel alive and appreciated. When we surrender to this quickening, we are escaping the alienated world we exist in. Love is so rare and seldom felt that we lose touch with the sensations that make it special between two people. It is easier to search for each other under the sheets instead of above water face to face. The natural tendencies to feel the needs and desires of one another have been savored due to selfishness and self seeking to survive in a world that hates love.
    Sex without the spirit of love is void. People keep indulging in the act like a crack head looking to recapture the first euphoric moment of ecstasy. They roam from partner to partner hoping for a fulfillment that only God can fill. You see God is love and love is God. It is a far more than an orgasmic experience. The orgasmic experience only reveals a false and temporal fulfillment in comparison to experiencing the reality of God. Whether we acknowledge God or not, human nature will seek gratification because there is something in them that desires its Creator, because God put that desire there at birth. You may think you need a sexual fix. It is not that, it is God calling you to experience His reality.
    Lonely people sleep together every night. They have sex and experience an unfulfilled that not even they understand. At times they will creep on their partner thinking he or she is not delivering when in reality no human can deliver fulfillment but God. Without God, a destructive force rules our sexual indulgence. This is why diseases and unwanted children are spreading like wild fire. All the outcomes are evidence of a lack of love. We are moving too fast to see. This is how the world controls our choices. The first step in saving ourselves is to be still and know we belong to God. WITHOUT LOVE, SEX IS JUST FALSE HOPE FOR IT. Yes, we are a world of love starved people.


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