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    But should I do it then?

    Good question to ask yourself at this point is this: Do I really want to do it and how would I feel if I didn't? That's the main question. If you decide you do need to do it, there's still a way to keep things okay if she says no. How? If you're reading this magazine, you should already know that you can't show her how TOTALLY into her you really are. That's quite a pathetic look you know seeing a guy with a puppyface begging for love. You need to act self-confidently and always keep your goal in mind. Instead of saying something like "I can't live without you, I just had to say it, I'm sorry, but that's the way things are don't say that, PLEASE!" Have you no self-respect whatsoever?

    Rather approach her lips during a really intimate dance. Or if you prefer to ask her out, then do that with class, without too many wussy-words. Just tell her you'd like to go out with her. Period. Silence. Now it's her turn to answer.

    Honesty and self-confidence works like a charm every time. If it doesn't, it still keeps things cosy and your friendship won't go to hell.


    The author of this article actually doesn't know a jack about this topic. But as he happens to be the owner of the magazine, then graphomania is allowed. Read, think and comment on the topic.

    AUTHOR: Siim Einfeldt

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    Zak




    Zak says on 2008-09-21 20:04:48 about experience
    I have to say its not just about ego. I did have the courage to ask out my friend and I got the later of the two responses mentioned in the article."Wow, your really sweet and I think I could give it a try" was the exact words... a week later she say "Your a really nice guy but I didn't feel anything". Im okay with all of that but now she is completely avoiding and I even tried to talk to her but to no avail. Now that is what really bugs the hell out of me. Looking for a reply.






    Jax




    Jax says on 2006-08-04 15:01:31 about
    My guy friend just worked up the courage to ask me out. It was sweet but funny too. He asked my bestfriend if I was interested in him and then she told me he'd asked. He and I both laughed about how "highschool" it was and that we never thought we'd be doing this at this age. So it was light-hearted. Worked for me :)






    Crystal




    Crystal says on 2004-12-22 22:37:11 about
    There is so such thing as "begging for love" and "no self-respect" whatsoever. If you like a girl, just tell her. For God's sake, act like a man! Girls don't really like to play games in guessing, contrary to normal lore. What I just see from this article is that men have big egos and are not willing to put their egos on the line in chasing a girl. That's so wrong. When you like a girl, the whole point is to put your ego on the line, isn't it? I hate men's egos









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