The Three Steps

If there is a place in life you want to get to, but there are obstacles that are keeping you from getting there, the best thing you can do is to take the time and effort to work yourself up to a higher level. And the only way to make that happen is to be willing to work your way through the process - by study, practice and experience. Let’s break it down in three easy steps.

The first step is to figure out where you are falling short. If it is a skill or technical issue, you can take a class or get more practice. But falling short isn’t always related to your ability. Sometimes it relates to how other people perceive your ability. In that case, it doesn’t matter where you think you are. You have to take a more objective look to find out where the decision makers think you are lacking.

The second step is to figure out what it would take to get past that hurdle. If there is a possibility to move on, it is possible for you to figure out what is necessary. Ask people, do research, or whatever else you need to do to get a lock on the issue. And be realistic. If it is possible and you are willing to work through the process, you can get it done.

Finally, put yourself through whatever is necessary to take yourself up to that next level. And do it with the right attitude. You will go further if you like where you are at any given time and if you get other people to enjoy working with you.

Understanding the three steps above really is easy. But that doesn’t necessarily translate into a new reality in your life. Depending on the particular situation, this may take some time and a lot of energy. It may be just a matter of learning a few new skills. On the other hand, the skills my not be the issue. In some situations it might be necessary to remake your personality or your image. But whatever it takes, it will be worth it in the end when you are able to look back over your life and know that you were able to do what it took to conquer the obstacle. At that point, you can count yourself a success.