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    In these days, Gay marriage is becoming fashionable in every country. Many countries are starting to legalize this union. However, according to a survey, mostly older people are against this same-sex marriage while younger ones are more acceptable towards it. 

    People supporting the gay marriage are saying that

    · We are solving the world's most serious problem - overpopulation.

    · It was practiced from the ancient times. In ancient Greeks, homosexuality was highly respected. They believed that it inspires youth to become worthy members of the community.

    · The only thing that should matter in marriage is love..

    · It doesn't hurt society or anyone in particular.

    And people who are not supporting this union say that

    · The legalization of homosexual marriage will quickly destroy the traditional family.

    · It’s against the definition of marriage. Also, some groups are changing the term ‘marriage’ one man and one woman" to "two persons."

    · It may lead to other immoral behaviors.

    Like this, many people around the world are talking about the pros and cons of gay marriage. But what is the status of this marriage in India? We are hearing news only from other countries. So in this article, I will try to expose India’s situation in this issue.

    Gay marriages ARE happening in India. What most Indians are thinking is it is imported from western part of Asia or from America. But I won’t say it like that because you can find a lot of examples from the history that this was practiced already a while ago, around the world. You can find the examples of same-sex intercourse in ancient Hindu temple walls and gateways.

    Some interesting facts from India:

    · In June 2003, about 35 men, many wearing jewelry and lipstick, took part in a rare gay pride march in Calcutta.

    · The Internet has given the gay community a relatively safe way to connect. So many gay sites are coming into India like , www.indiangayclub.com , www.gaymarriage.com

    · Telephone gay counseling is now available in major cities, like Delhi

    · The first gay men’s conference in the sub-continent was held in India, which was organized by The Humsafar Trust, a support group for gay-marriage.

    · Bombay Dost, India's only gay and lesbian publication.

    · Aanchal, a help line and counseling centre for lesbian and bisexual women in Mumbai

    · AMALG India - a dating service operates like a matrimonial for lesbians and gays.

    Like many other countries, Gay Marriage is supported by one group and not supported by another one. However, there's not many supporters of gay movement compared to the opponents. In India, homosexuals remain victims of violence in different forms supported by the society.

    I’m confident that Indian people never ever support this type of marriage. To prove my confident, I wish to bring out these points

    · In India, marriage is life's most important event and no family is complete without children.

    · In India, homosexual acts are illegal. We are already having a law from 1885 to avoid unnatural sexual activities. I think India is the only country having this type of laws. I just want to mention an interesting thing on the incident when Queen Victoria framed this law in 1885. This law makes homosexual acts between men illegal but does not technically cover lesbians. When it was told to extend this law to address female homosexuality as well, she refused to believe that such acts between women were possible.

    · The Indian Supreme Court and government told that homosexuality cannot be legalized in India as the society disapproves of such behavior.

    · From 1860 to 1992, Only 30 cases were there in courts under this homosexual law. Out of the 30 cases, 18 were non-consensual, 4 were consensual of which 3 were before 1940 and 8 were unspecified.

    · Many cases are filled against the gay people under public nuisance law.

    · When a film ‘FIRE’ on Gay Marriage was released in India, it faced a lot of issues. The theatres in which this powerful story of two sisters-in-law who fall in love was screened, faced a serious problems.

    I think these facts are enough to support the idea that "Indian people will never ever support Gay Marriage".

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    Hemant




    Hemant says on 2009-01-02 07:46:47 about homosexuality
    Rather than taking homosexuality at a social front... people should also consider it at a personal level. Why people fail to understand the soul relation of a person to another person and looks only on sexuality. Its as simple as if i like a person , and wants to spend my rest of my lyf with him.. wants to give him all the happiness and comfort . why i should not ?






    vicky




    vicky says on 2008-12-21 06:55:43 about king of homo
    Dear friend I Love You






    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxy 84




    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxy 84 says on 2008-12-04 03:54:49 about gay relationship
    each guy has relationship wt anther during his college lif.....mostly in the city it is style................life is 2 short....let's enjoy...but take precautions.......b'coz sexually transmitted diseases r increasing.....baki to pyar ko koi seema nahin.......






    smoky




    smoky says on 2008-10-14 08:15:29 about being gay
    Why should gays be looked down upon by the so called straights? Most married guys have some voyeuristic relation with guys whether in college or in hostel. I have often heard that snatching towels after bath is a common act between straight guys in hostels. That is ok because they are straight. They can screw any guy and then marry a girl and ridicule gays because that is how guys are supoosed to be: straight. As for the rest of the society, only one question: if gays don't like girls where lies their fault? It is only because they cannot like them. Anyways, calling all unattached gays to contact me at smokydelight@gmail.com if you are looking for a friend.






    kiss army




    kiss army says on 2008-10-04 04:55:25 about being gay
    its time marriage between same sex takes place freely in India; by the way any gay guy interested in corresponding with me can sms me at 9862367423, as im closet and my parents dindnt know anything about gay ,only sms me ok,no phone call or else i`d be in danger,understand...ipc 377 must be amended






    kiss army




    kiss army says on 2008-10-04 04:54:50 about being gay
    its time marriage between same sex takes place freely in India; by the way any gay guy interested in corresponding with me can sms me at 9862367423, as im closet and my parents dindnt know anything about gay ,only sms me ok,no phone call or else i`d be in danger,understand






    bits




    bits says on 2008-09-09 15:29:42 about gay
    i think that being a gay is not a wrong thing, in this world every boy wish to be straight, but what he can do if god has given him that kind of feeling, where in he can only feel for boys but not for gilrs, so i don,t think that being a gay i a sin, infact i would say that it is a gift of nature, because those are the only people who can give u lots of love in this world.






    akhil




    akhil says on 2008-08-10 10:52:53 about gay
    hi...any intrested gay can contact me at +919823645100...






    London Stick




    London Stick says on 2008-06-17 18:05:33 about Gay Marriage
    People who publicly decounce gay relationships and marriages privately desire it.






    Kiran




    Kiran says on 2008-05-19 03:30:21 about homoseuality
    homosexuality is a desire and not disease.
    It same as sexuality with different sex.
    Know a days we (society)should accept gay marriage. It is bonding of two soulmate with same sex.







    Shadowed




    Shadowed says on 2008-05-17 13:11:14 about Unsupported Marriage in India - Article
    I think the article is concise and well written, focussing on the two sides of the issue in India with regard to accepting homosexuality or gay marriages. The unfortunate thing however, is that a gay or a lesbian relationship is understood to mean a relationship confined to physical requirements/needs OR an unnatural behaviour. If it was a matter of choice rather than a natural instinct, I am sure no gay or lesbian people would have opted to be at the receiving end. Society should understand that as long as two people are happy with something, and it doesnt directly harm anyone, there should be nothing wrong in allowing it. And coming to kids in the society, I am sure no kid is going to become a gay/lesbian just by looking at people around them. This is a natural instinct and if the kid is a gay/lesbian, it will grow up to be one and if the kid is straight (which according to most ignorant people is the only sexual tendency that should exist!!) the kid will remain straight no matter what they see around them!
    Anyways, the article was well framed with relevant content and good statistical info!






    anon.




    anon. says on 2008-04-25 09:34:12 about
    Mary and i suppose god and religion are the ultimate scientific truth , the panacea to all problems ...thats why the world is such a wonderful place to live it ?






    anon.